My Girlfriend is Pregnant

Options for Men and Partners

Educated. Supported. Equipped. 

services for men

All our services are confidential and free of charge. Services for men and partners include:

  • Abortion, adoption and parenting information

  • Pregnancy decision consultation

  • STI/STD education

  • Parenting programs

  • After abortion support

  • Referrals

unplanned pregnancy

If she's pregnant, we are here to help you both explore your options. We provide services and evidence-based information so both of you are equipped to make a decision.

You may have a lot of questions about abortion, parenting options, or what comes next. We're here every step of the way to provide the answers and support you need.

MEN & ABORTION

Although the decision is ultimately up to her, knowing how you really feel about the pregnancy and being a dad helps her make a fully informed choice. It empowers her and you. Leave all your cards on the table. If you want to continue your relationship together – tell her. If you’re excited (and also a little scared) – tell her. She deserves to hear from you because she is making a decision that will impact your life too.

What you can do

Take your time. The best thing you can do is pause and help her slow down. She has plenty of time to make a decision. Make an appointment for the two of you to come in for a no-pressure pregnancy decision consultation to explore your options, and make a pregnancy confirmation appointment for her.

Home pregnancy tests are an indicator of pregnancy, but not a confirmation. Know for sure before you both decide your next steps.